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Top_Ad5385 t1_je9yk52 wrote

Um. This sounds a bit stalker-ish.

What do you mean "find"?

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The-Protomolecule t1_jea5tg1 wrote

Yes, some alarm bells went off for me too. 23 is a bit young to lose track of someone and have to fly to another country to blindly search them out.

If this is a romantic interest OP. take a long look at your situation before you do this. There are better ways to find someone than stalking them to another continent.

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throwawaybad25 t1_jea6itw wrote

Lol does sound very stalkish. Basically our friend in our friendship group had dual citizenship of both British & American. He was abused quite badly throughout his life from drugged up parents. He always said how he wanted to run away to his extended relatives in Piscataway. Last year he packed everything up & did a run & couldn’t reach him by phone. We just miss & want to see him one last time.

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thefluffywang t1_jeaaalx wrote

So you’re in Piscataway, now what? Do you know their address? Do you have any other way of contacting them other than the phone? Did they acknowledge you were trying to visit them?

You may not mean it but this just sounds creepy. I can’t imagine going to another country for a lost friend I haven’t communicated with in a year, guessing and searching for where they might be…

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