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JudyLyonz t1_itemrwj wrote

Do you have any idea why she bugging you? Does she know and can she gt to you physically? Are you afraid for your personal safety and/or the safety of others? Does she have a history of doing this sort of thing?

So what to do?

  • First, see a lawyer, see a lawyer, see a lawyer. Not Lawyer Google, not lawyer "this is what someone from the Internet thinks, but a real flesh and blood attorney. Find out what your legal options are
  • Keep a log of every communication with her:
    • Date and time
    • Who initiated it
    • Is there any precepitating event
    • A screen shot of what was sent or a transcript of everything that was said from Hello to Good Bye
    • Is there any precipitating event shortly after (slashed tires, broken windows, lots of hang up calls, calls to your job, etc)
  • Every time she contacts you, notify the police and add a notation to the log
    • What time and date you called
    • Who you spoke with
    • If they took any kind of official report
    • What they said, any commitments they might have made

And talk to a lawyer.

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