Submitted by No-Camp9363 t3_yzkg6m in pittsburgh
We were looking to move back east and looking at the suburbs of Pittsburgh after 16 years out west to get away from natural disasters (been there, done that), high cost of living ($1.5mil for a 3 bedroom shack) and to hope to be able afford basics and a second car. So, where in the country can you move to have relative safety, culture, museums, art and music, good schools, a large yard with grass, four seasons including snow in the winter, at least some liberals and a nice 4 bedroom house that costs less than $500,000? To most of the country that high price is outrageous. Here you can't rent a house for under $4000 a month. Pittsburgh on paper seems to fit the bill. I watched a video on youtube dissing PA and Pittsburgh and my son said he doesn't want to go now. I don't blame him after seeing that. I know all places have good and bad. My family is 2 hours away and my mother's health isn't great. I can't afford to fly my kids home to see family and they are missing out on knowing their grandparents. There are so many reason to move east, more than stay out west. We would love to live in the next big town over from us here, but there is little chance we can afford it and schools are not great.
We have two younger kids. I am from NE Ohio so I know what winter in. My spouse is from Western PA and has lived everywhere including Chicago, Atlanta, NE US, NorCal and Socal etc etc.
Right now we have two seasons, fire season and cold/wet. Our house gets zero sun Oct-May. I am not crazy about moving to a cloudier and wetter area, but Pittsburg does have snow and we actually want snow.
Education and culture is very important. I miss midwestern folks. I have found it hard to mesh with people here and they don't feel very genuine. Not all people, but it is a very small clicky town. I don't really care about eating out, but having access to shopping would be helpful. Until two months ago, I had to drive 80 minutes RT to get to a Target. With gas at $6.99 a gallon, it just about kills you.
We went through a lot with the wildfires in 2020. Although our house is ok, our property still burned and my kids still talk about the evacuation. Every storm they are scared of lighting. Every wind they ask if a tree is going to fall on the house. Every large truck going buy, they think it is an earthquake. Every big rain (if it rains) they worry about debris flows which we have had to evacuate from, just in case. I would love for them to feel safe and not on edge preparing for red flag warnings. Same for myself.
My husband was diagnosed with a rare aggressive cancer last year. Although his treatment was a success, if the cancer metastasizes, we need to be around good doctors.
Boston area is on the list, but it is still very expensive and I don't see a lot for younger kids to do (amusement parks, kid centered museums, play places etc). Yes, parks are great but not in the winter. Boston also seems very stuffy (Not to offend anyone, just a stereotype that seems to stick).
I have looked at upstate NY, but I know very little about the towns. We cannot afford NYC and I want a lawn. Like a real backyard with grass. Actual grass, not mulch or astroturf because you are in a drought.
Durham, NC seems ok. I am not terribly excited by it looking online. Like PA it is in a much more conservative state and that could be an issue.
I have thought about staying out west and going to Seattle. Cost of living is still high and they still deal with wildfire smoke and earthquakes. However, Pittsburgh air quality is a very big concern especially with little ones with sensitive lungs.
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If I could travel with my family for a year to try out different places I would, but that is not an option. We just want a good, safe home with a flat yard to out up a swing set and access to fun because god only knows after the last few year we need as much as we can get.
pAul2437 t1_ix0hcfk wrote
Suburbs of Pittsburgh sound perfect for you.