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Proof-Variation7005 t1_ir0mfam wrote

Reply to comment by redditguru1900 in waterfire first date…yay or nay by stinkylover77

Drinks/Coffee first date >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Dinner first date.

Either one is fine if it's going well, but if there's red flags or you just get the bad vibe, you'll be so glad you don't have to wait around for an entrée.

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PotatosAreDelicious t1_ir1p4vx wrote

Yeah it makes everyone feel better and more relaxed if the first date has an easy exit and low commitment.

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Proof-Variation7005 t1_ir1qkgw wrote

Totally. I wouldn't rule out doing that dinner if there'd been a longer "talking" phase or it's something where you're less worried about it being rough.

But all it takes is one rando who says some super weird shit right after you've ordered food to make you say "Never again" to the dinner first date with a rando.

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