Leather-Worry-7517 OP t1_jad9rj8 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:40 PM

Reply to comment by YoProfWhite in Gf (25F) blocks me (29F) everytime she gets mad at me by Leather-Worry-7517

You are right, because I'm always here when she's done being upset. I need to regain power in this relationship. My thing is, if I said I won't be around anymore, she will just say that's fine and she will be ok. She won't be hurt by my leaving. Because I try so hard to make it work, she keeps sticking around. I guarantee as soon as I put less effort in or pretend I don't care, she will leave and be ok being by herself. She is a narcissist.

YoProfWhite t1_jada582 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:43 PM

Sounds terribly exhausting. You must really love her to be willing to put in this much effort. Of course, if she really loved you back then she wouldn't be okay with you deciding to leave.

It sounds like one of you already knows this relationship is dead and the other is left dancing with a corpse full of bile.