VanMan32 t1_jaegrcv wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:13 PM

> I have pushed him away a bunch due to childhood trauma creating it difficult for me to feel safe with trust in relationships.

What exactly happens though when you push him away?

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaegxmp wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:14 PM

I find reasons why we wouldn’t work out

VanMan32 t1_jaehnm4 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:18 PM

Then I am sorry, but if I was the guy, I wouldn't stick around unless they are trying to get help. Are you seeing a professional about your trauma?

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaei2da wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:21 PM

I’ve tried to get professional help but I live with my trauma abuser. When I try to pull away he threatens to call the police on that person. He’s the first person I’ve told of the stuff going on at home