beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaehdrj wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:17 PM

Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25

Work on myself by myself?

tickleyourfanny t1_jaeho7g wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:18 PM

I hear they have things called 'therapists' that can help..might just be a rumor though. I hear they can help with all this past trauma. again, might just be a rumor generated by social media

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaei71c wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:22 PM

I live with my abuser and have seemed professional help. On top of that due to my means; I have no way to leave my current living situation. I’m surviving currently.

tickleyourfanny t1_jaeis5h wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:26 PM

get a jobby job and move out..Certainly sounds you have more problems than just some other guy, you are pushing away, that you need to focus on first.

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaejcay wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:29 PM

Working on it. My abuser put me 10k in debt, micromanages my life, and so on. The first out I find I’m going to take.