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trishsf t1_jadvbyr wrote

Okay. You need to see a therapist. This was one month. One month. That’s not patience. You need some help. That’s not a slam. He doesn’t want this and you aren’t hearing him. It was way too early to be acting like this. Please seek out a therapist because life doesn’t need to be this hard.

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UCCUTE OP t1_jadvzwf wrote

I’m keeping talking to my therapist about those. He just asked me to be patient and I’ve been working on this so much! I used to be cry every time when guys leave me and go back to their home. Now I’m already way much better. I am hearing his feelings. But I don’t know how to prove my sincerity to change this and improve myself. I just don’t know what to do.. he wants a gf to meet occasionally but in that case I have to hold my feelings, which makes him feel bad as well. What can I tell him what should I do…

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trishsf t1_jaedtyz wrote

I’m glad you’re getting help. You aren’t ready for a relationship. Relationships, healthy ones, develop over time and it takes far more than a month. Work on yourself first, then date.

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UCCUTE OP t1_jaeh1b1 wrote

Thank you. I just texted him: “Hey . Thank you for expressing you feelings to me I really appreciate it. I think we both need time to focus on ourselves again. If you are still interested we can reconnect later on. We can just stay as friends. I hope you have a great day so far. :)” I’ll just focus on myself for a while I guess. I will be better and get back to him(if I still like him). Thank you so much for leaving kind messages.

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