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UCCUTE OP t1_jadvzwf wrote

Reply to comment by trishsf in 22F/27M Abandonment issue made him escapes from me. Gonna see him tonight need advice from people! by UCCUTE

I’m keeping talking to my therapist about those. He just asked me to be patient and I’ve been working on this so much! I used to be cry every time when guys leave me and go back to their home. Now I’m already way much better. I am hearing his feelings. But I don’t know how to prove my sincerity to change this and improve myself. I just don’t know what to do.. he wants a gf to meet occasionally but in that case I have to hold my feelings, which makes him feel bad as well. What can I tell him what should I do…

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trishsf t1_jaedtyz wrote

I’m glad you’re getting help. You aren’t ready for a relationship. Relationships, healthy ones, develop over time and it takes far more than a month. Work on yourself first, then date.

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UCCUTE OP t1_jaeh1b1 wrote

Thank you. I just texted him: “Hey . Thank you for expressing you feelings to me I really appreciate it. I think we both need time to focus on ourselves again. If you are still interested we can reconnect later on. We can just stay as friends. I hope you have a great day so far. :)” I’ll just focus on myself for a while I guess. I will be better and get back to him(if I still like him). Thank you so much for leaving kind messages.

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