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"Am I being stupid for wanting to get back with her?" Not stupid, but you ache for the girl you HAD, not this one who would blame YOU for HER cheating

"Should I delete her location (cant seem to stop looking at it and wondering if she’s with him)? " Yes

"Should I not meet her in Italy?" No

Just thoughts from a random dude on the internet.

Good luck bud

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She tells you she loves you so much she will fuck that guy and only be faithful to you when you are around. Please, have some self respect.

I guess you do not mind being cheated on, actually? If you decide to stay I would check marriage laws regarding children in your country. You know, in France for example being not biological father to child does not mean anything you still are forced by law to be his "father".

The only thing you've done that was stupid was ask a young woman to go without any real contact for a couple years at a time (other than few, short visits). LDRs are hard.

If you do decide to end this, then you shut down all contact. Block her on phone and social media and email. And don't relent.

I don't think you should be angry at her, you were asking a nearly impossible thing of her. Date locally. Be realistic.

She'll survive, and so will you.