Submitted by ethanwhitby t3_127icqh in relationship_advice
This is a bit long and first post but just need some advice.
At the end of last year me and my now ex (well call her R) broke up and I got with someone on my course (well call them S). Then over Christmas I went home from uni and saw R again and long story short we got back together despite my feelings towards S and their reciprocating them. Even at the time Ik that I made the wrong choice but R Is every good at emotionally manipulation so I stayed with her till last week she cheated on me. But over the last few months me and S have got way closer and are very close friends and they’ve now moved on to a different guy (well call him D) and Ik I’m not in the right place to start a new relationship so I can’t even do anything to compete with D expect ask S to wait for me but that doesn’t feel fair.
Any help would be much appreciated:)
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