LaFluffy OP t1_jeaeb7s wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:09 PM

Reply to comment by MckittenMan in I (F22) have failed to break up with (M26) multiple times, how do I succeed? by LaFluffy

i wish i could but due to a new job i have to stay for at least another two months anyways as there is a no move policy through training. i also dont want to give him the opportunity to stop paying bills out of spite and have that financially ruin me in the future.

MckittenMan t1_jeajv4i wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:44 PM

Alright, in that case.. if you're stuck there. You need to start saving up as much as possible.

That way, when the lease is up, there is nothing holding you back from moving. And if you're not where you want to be financially near that day, consider moving back home to get back on your feet.

Do not allow yourself to sign up for another lease because you're dependent on someone.

LaFluffy OP t1_jeakhjq wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:48 PM

i agree. im excited and terrified at the same. the last time i tried to block all contact he created other phone numbers in order to call me. i dont think hell do anything violent but i feel as though he will see me moving out on our ring camera and come back from work in order to try and stop it