bishop0408 t1_jeehqmb wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:01 PM

Reply to comment by ThrowRA_throwaways in Help I (F20) feel like I’m in a 3-way with my boyfriends (M28) mum(F54) by ThrowRA_throwaways

You move out and break up with him

ThrowRA_throwaways OP t1_jeeia0y wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:05 PM

But then I would be essentially homeless, I can’t go back to my mother because I would go insane and my dad is out of the picture. But I suppose I would have to go back to my mother until I can gather enough money that’s the only way.

bishop0408 t1_jeeinft wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:08 PM

Do you work? Are you in school?

Well that sounds better than this situation. Don't you see what he did? He isolated you so that your only option is to stay with him. You need to leave. Unless your mother is abusive then I think it'd be wise to go back there and reevaluate things.

ThrowRA_throwaways OP t1_jeeixhn wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:10 PM

My mother is a narcissistic psychopath :(

bishop0408 t1_jeej067 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:11 PM

You don't have a friend you can stay with?

ThrowRA_throwaways OP t1_jeej2zd wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:11 PM

Nope I am very much in deep shit

bishop0408 t1_jeekng3 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 1:23 PM

Do you work or are in school?