Submitted by ThrowRA-raid876 t3_127ywoj in relationship_advice
2 months ago my boyfriend's employer filed for bankruptcy, which is terrible but not a surprise.
My bf hasn't been able to find a job, but financially he is ok.
Meanwhile I've been thriving and doing really well. I used to be crazy crazy needy and codependent, and I've made a HUGE improvement. I can't stress this part enough.
This triggered something in him. Now he has strange behaviour. He wants to see me every day. He accused me of being secretive. Before I would be chasing him down, now he becomes angry and yells because I'm not at home enough.
He suddenly told me he was moving abroad and I didn't react. He later shouted asking why I wasn't angry and I said I'm honestly tired.
I've asked him if he wants to break up then just tell me, but he always has a way of putting it off.
I'm scared now. He is sullen, quick to anger, and doesn't have any sweetness left. After we have sex he bugs me on purpose by saying "I think I pulled out on time."
Am I somehow imagining things? I need advice
Tl;Dr bf has done a 180
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