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Creative_Recover t1_jegra2f wrote

Reply to comment by Feisty_Bid1067 in My GF (19F) worries about hurting me (25M) in the future by Feisty_Bid1067

Have you considered that you too might also be carrying hangups from your past? I think you are focusing on what she said too much.

You need to appreciate this relationship for what it is and take things at a pace that is right for you both. Enjoy the moments and don't let your different respective pasts ruin the present time.

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Feisty_Bid1067 OP t1_jegrxnz wrote

Well, my previous serious relationship that lasted 4 years ended in a matter of a day, when my ex told me that she doesn't feel anything anymore. I was devastated and couldn't put myself to be in a serious relationship for two years. So, yeah, you are maybe right. It can be from both sides. Thank you! A lot.

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