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OnlyFactsMatter t1_iuk8xe6 wrote

Reply to comment by oiler1996 in Looked at my partner's old pictures, should I confess? by Aitathrowaway9085

> The ones before i wouldnt worry about that was before your relationship and isnt that big of a deal in my opinion,

I disagree. It's not her fault obviously, but mentally I'd never get over it.

Plus, it shows her doing kinky stuff that she wouldn't do for him. So mentally, it's just a dealbreaker.

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oiler1996 t1_iuk92wa wrote

We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him. But i do understand how this could be a dealbreaker for some people

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OnlyFactsMatter t1_iukamb2 wrote

> We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him.

He confirmed it above. To me, that's an undeniable dealbreaker. Honestly I'd consider it as bad as cheating.

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oiler1996 t1_iukawp8 wrote

Alright yea i could see that being a dealbreaker for some people, to me it shows she either doesnt trust OP with kinky shit, doesnt think she will enjoy it with him, or she has outgrown that phase of her life, but for her to have the photos still 2 years later i would agree it is a dealbreaker for me aswell.

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