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itsameluigee t1_iujd9jy wrote

Reply to comment by harshnoisebae in My boyfriend's friends don't like me - what to do? by harshnoisebae

Do they have relationships of their own? I'm assuming no.

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harshnoisebae OP t1_iujdjy8 wrote

Two of them are in a relationship together but it's not exactly a model relationship from what my boyfriend tells me, which makes the whole thing pretty hypocritical.

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itsameluigee t1_iujdy10 wrote

People are excellent at hypocrisy.

I don't know if there's a magic fix to this. Sounds like you weren't going to fit the mold if what they were looking for anyway. But then whatever happened with that just solidified it.

Just be civil. Hopefully you'll grow on them and things will get better. Bur you can't force them to like you.

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harshnoisebae OP t1_iujeeej wrote

That is what I've concluded I would do in therapy. Just give it time, because I've kind of been doing everything I can. I guess it really just wears down on me since it's been months now. But thanks for the sound advice, you're right - I can't force anyone to change.

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