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HarveySnake t1_iydhz23 wrote

When you are in a committed monogamous relationship the only body count that matters is 1: your partner. You only have sex with your partner. Everything before the relationship doesn't matter.

Stop fixating on stupid stuff or you will destroy this relationship.

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VariationX7 t1_iydm68u wrote

It does matter within reason, views on intimacy can be dealbreaker. Also stuff like infidelity in the past can most certainly be a dealbreaker, saying it doesn't matter removes all accountability from the decisions we made. If your partner isn't comfortable with your past then you weren't right for eachother in the first place.

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[deleted] t1_iydiydj wrote

It does matter to me within reason. I wouldn’t be comfortable with a partner who has slept with 100+ men for example.

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