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Honestly I agree that it’s immature,stupid,ridiculous and I wouldn’t do that But my dad is the same way 🤷‍♂️ he never laid a finger on me or my mother. Or made me feel unsafe nicest man you’ll ever meet but I grew up like that just thinking oh that’s my dumbass dad so I can’t really say. But he definitely has some issues that need anger management and if you feel unsafe leave

Yes he will hit you.

Many people who share posts like yours dont seem to realize this truth, so let me tell you:

Abusive people dont abuse people ALL the time.

If they did they would NEVER get anyone in their lives to abuse!

Imagine, he punches you on your first date, youd press charges, call the cops, whatever, right? That DOESNT happen though.

They win their future victims over, like he has done with you, until you feel like “youre in too deep/youre too much in love” whatever…and THEN, eventually, the abuse starts and please know he will blame YOU for it.

If this was a problem he owned and admitted to and wanted to change, simply put, he would be taking action to do so.

This relationship is not safe for you and you should create an exit plan to break up and get out/away as soon as you can.

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He scares you! And of course he promise you do not hit you. All the people that hit their partner also promise to never do it again and still... In their rage they can't control themself! It will get worse with time. And that he doesn't want to seek help... even though he knows he has a problem and it scares you.

Do you want to live in fear, waiting till he finally hit you? And what about your future, do you want children? With this man?

Run now while you still can and are unharmed.