He listen to everything was others say. The parents say block her, he does it, the holistic teacher aka therapist says block her and he also humps. He has no own opinion. This guy is no good for you. You say he is important for you and you want to fight, but your feelings aren't recipracated or why else could he end the contact so easy?

There are so many better men who really cares for you without all this trouble.

He scares you! And of course he promise you do not hit you. All the people that hit their partner also promise to never do it again and still... In their rage they can't control themself! It will get worse with time. And that he doesn't want to seek help... even though he knows he has a problem and it scares you.

Do you want to live in fear, waiting till he finally hit you? And what about your future, do you want children? With this man?

Run now while you still can and are unharmed.

He is too nice to everybody except for you. He can't say no to his mom and dissappoint her but has no problem to dissappoint you. Everybody is more important than you. You can wait. Now tell me, is this man really nice? He hurts you and he knows it. He shows you clearly where his priorities are and you are on the bottom. In short: this man has no respect gor you. You deserve so much better.

You are short time together and even if some of his future plans are unrealistic, he dreams of living in the cabin in the woods with his wifey, i guess that poops out his children and care for him. He will go on the hunt, why else have a cabin in the nowhere, except you start an horror movie, but then you also start to hunt...

If you already know that you will be not combatible longterm, why even keep going?

Deep conversations. Haha. At 6am after clubbing. And how strange, 3 girls for - let me count - 2 guy friends? Oh no, he is also there and magically it adds pefect. 3 girls and 3 boys. At his house. After spending the whole night together dancibg and drinking. I'm sure they talked about politics and climate change, haha.

Break up. He brought girls with home to fuck. He lied to you. He is not your bf.

Here in Germany it is unfortunately legal if one is 16+ and the other is 18+ except there is a state of dependence (like pupil and teacher). But our laws are to lax anyway in so many things.

Please, you must leave him. He uses you. He is abusive to you. Why are you even with him? You are so much more worth.

Stop paying for him or giving him money. Stop lifting a finger for him. He is an adult sitting the whole day on his lazy ass. You need to break up. But don't do it alone. Since he is abusive, you never know how he react. Have a friend with you. And then tell him that he need to pack his shit and needs to leave. I guess the lease is on you?