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What do you want to do? Is it upsetting you? Is your sex life good or no?

What’s the issue?

There’s nothing wrong with masturbation by itself, is it that it’s impacting your sex life?

I mean, if it's bothering you have you considered... Talking to him?

I think because he is not imitating sex with me recently

Make sure he doesn't run out of lube?

Is there some reason this is a problem for him to do?

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Then start by talking to him about that.

We both have an open masterbating policy but I caught him doing it again as soon as I left back to back and he lied that he didn’t but then told the truth

I’m assuming it bothers you because it’s something he does alone and presumably doesn’t have sex with you on those days. If so, have you tried surprise initiating or teasing him that you’ll screw later. Then sext a bit.

Talk to him , confront him with every detail about it .

I mean sleep with him more?

I find it odd that there needs to be a masturbation policy, people are allowed to touch themselves without it being policed or needing to report it.

Yeah probably the easy answer

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Whats an open masterbating policy?