hound_of_ulster95 t1_iyf59go wrote on November 30, 2022 at 10:50 PM

Why would you be crazy? You want happiness. She makes you happy. There's nothing wrong with that. But, I can say from my point of view..I've dated management before when I was younger. Three different times and all ended in failure for me. We were able to work together still but there was always an awkwardness after. If there's no rules preventing it. By all means, do you make you happy. Your child will adjust and love it as they grow. Just focus on being happy and healthy with your kid and hopefully soon to be girlfriend?

emoshscottishmum OP t1_iyf6o6h wrote on November 30, 2022 at 11:00 PM

I’m mostly worried it will blow things up at work and I’ll maybe have to move departments or she seems to think she’ll get in trouble. I worry that if I get moved and I don’t see her as much things will phase out cause I’m not seeing her as much and Iv blown everything up for nothing. It sounds crazy but I’m willing to leave my job if I really came it it down the line if we where fully established so that she wouldn’t get in trouble but she wants to tell senior management now