Yeah I totally get that especially cause it’s a masssssssive change for him not just for me to find someone for it to be a woman too, he’s only little and won’t understand yet

I’m mostly worried it will blow things up at work and I’ll maybe have to move departments or she seems to think she’ll get in trouble. I worry that if I get moved and I don’t see her as much things will phase out cause I’m not seeing her as much and Iv blown everything up for nothing. It sounds crazy but I’m willing to leave my job if I really came it it down the line if we where fully established so that she wouldn’t get in trouble but she wants to tell senior management now

Makes it very complicated as I work in childcare and although neither of us look after my son at work he does attend an after school club at the same company and he does know her from the handful of times she’s covered for staff