[24F] [32M] How should I feel if my bf doesnt want to share my work?

Submitted by nonsenseariadna t3_1000qri in relationship_advice

Before I met him, I was building my personal page, doing streams and posting every other week about technology. But I stopped when we started a relationship because he started to looking down at my work. He makes a more specialized content, more journalist type, and I did more of a fun and entretaining posts or vids. It's been a year after I stopped posting completely, and I'm asking him if he can share my work again, as I don't have a platform as I used to... I even stopped doing personal stuff so I could spend time with him as he started telling me that I should see him more often. Today I asked him if he could share my work if I started making content again: he said no, because he is a media site and I'm an influencer. How should I feel?

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HatsAndTopcoats t1_j2esbgg wrote

He sounds like a jerk who likes telling you what to do and making you feel bad.

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gcitt t1_j2f0vu4 wrote

This is the standard toxic age gap template. You got rid of things that made you happy to please him, and he trivializes your career. This never ends happily.

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Monkey_Junk t1_j2er5v7 wrote

I don't think we're still getting the complete picture here, but based just off this he sounds like an unsupportive douche canoe.

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nonsenseariadna OP t1_j2erqzj wrote

lmaooo why u say that? I'm trying to post kind of the "whole picture", without crucifying someone.

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Monkey_Junk t1_j2es36z wrote

I'm literally on your side.

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nonsenseariadna OP t1_j2etqbn wrote

i get it, but im asking why you say he is an ass :0

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Monkey_Junk t1_j2eyo3v wrote

... he was looking down at your work. You said it yourself. He doesn't respect what you do and will not showcase it.

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