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giag27 t1_j2e563e wrote

Do yourself a favour, move on, you’ve already spent 8 years. Don’t waste another 8. Move on, have fun, work on yourself, maybe some therapy (understand why you would knowingly stay being a placeholder for so long) and then find your person. He ain’t your person.

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ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2e948b wrote

It's sad but I think I understand already. I truly just wanted him to chose me. Especially with all the work I put in. It's almost like I put all my effort into a project just for it to be given away to someone else with no recognition.

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Livingeachdayatedge t1_j2eompe wrote

The project was never yours. You are doing someone else work. The project already has another leader. You are just the free labour doing all the hard work while leader getting recognition.

You need to find your own project with your name as leader.

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