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stereonix t1_j2dj148 wrote

If you wanted her to come home with you, it's on you to say that. She can't read your mind and was probably still trying to enjoy her evening. Do you have an idea why this is bothering you?

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[deleted] OP t1_j2dj688 wrote

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stereonix t1_j2djor0 wrote

I agree with you, which is why I probably would have asked my partner to come home with me instead of "obviously" saying yes to her staying out. I'm sorry you're alone but I think you did this to yourself here.

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Magali_Lunel t1_j2dju2s wrote

Does this happen a lot? Do you frequently want to go home or stay home, while she likes to go out?

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[deleted] OP t1_j2djxgg wrote

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Magali_Lunel t1_j2dk7sj wrote

Yeah, it's a bummer that you're sick, but unless there's other problems in the relationship or missing info, I think it's fine she stayed out.

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Murky_Anxiety4884 t1_j2dk85o wrote

You're being overly sensitive. It's a simple choice between one ruined eve and two.

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