>> He said I was selfish and being materialistic.

This is not the dude for you, perhaps? You're working your ass off, and your totally reasonable financial goals for the future are, in his words "selfish" and "materialistic." He is happy to work 4 hours a day & not try to advance while you conveniently pay for nearly everything, including his own car! I will never understand how so many on top of it women accept this type of being used by a man financially, while at the same time being called "selfish" for not wanting to be used. He's snowing you and your response is "how can I support him EVEN MORE." (Edited: The audacity of your dude is making me see red tbh.)