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trishsf t1_j6ocebj wrote

Is the sex good? When it happens, are you completely satisfied?

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[deleted] OP t1_j6orhsa wrote

The sex is good, the thing is that somehow when i come to completion i cry, so i asked him to not give me completion anymore...but aside from that the sex is great

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trishsf t1_j6oursr wrote

Okay. Why are you crying? It’s hard if you can’t satisfy a partner because they are asking you not to. Have you talked to a therapist about this? If not, please do.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6ow1cg wrote

I talked to my therapist about it, she thinks it's because i'm overstimulated at that point and that's why it doesn't feel good for me. I know he has a hard time with the fact that he can't plaese me in that way becayse if that

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trishsf t1_j6oxjx1 wrote

If she’s not coming up with solutions then I strongly suggest finding a different therapist.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6oyamn wrote

Well it is not her specialty, so i don't know if she can really help me with that

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trishsf t1_j6p171n wrote

Which is a good reason to see someone else.

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