stereonix t1_j6o2mu6 wrote
> I haven't put anyone on a pedestal like this in the last 10 years
That was a huge mistake. She's a human being just like you and has a life—you made it worse by overreacting to her absence and deleting her when you didn't seem ready to let it go. Once you do those things, you don't get to undo them especially since you haven't known each other long on top of her showing signs of disinterest. I'd say you fucked this one up a little too much, just move on.
[deleted] OP t1_j6p0bg3 wrote
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stereonix t1_j6p74s8 wrote
Putting people on a pedestal is a textbook toxic behavior—if you're excited about someone, you have to remind yourself to take it slow and still treat them like any other potential partner.
Don't reach out to her and don't expect her to reach out to you. Live and learn
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