almightygarlicdoggo t1_j6nlbe1 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in My (30M) girlfriend (20F) is going on a short trip with her best friend (24F). I trust her completely but I feel sick with anxiety when I think of her drunk at a nightclub. by [deleted]
> she made the first move
Don't use that as an excuse, because that's not a valid excuse. As a more mature adult, you are supposed to know when some decision made by someone much more inexperienced is wrong. She made the move but you allowed it to continue.
> I'm not here to discuss the age gap in our relationship because we have already spoken a lot about it and we are at terms with it.
You brought this on yourself. It's clear that you're not at terms with it since you are concerned about her going out. Deal with your decision, she's much younger and in a completely different stage in life.
If you thought she was responsible enough to date you, surely you should know that she's responsible enough to go out with her friends. Don't let her feel bad about it. Dating you shouldn't deprive her of enjoying her 20s.
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