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AllTheRoadRunning t1_j6fi35s wrote

Reply to comment by okcknight in Community outreach group trying to stop violent crime on Richmond’s northside by CrassostreaVirginica

It depends on the resources, though. If you can ensure that kids have 1. a regular breakfast, 2. a regular lunch, and 3. face time with positive role models you'll see improvements. All three of those things cost money.

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jracka t1_j6g5zug wrote

Two parent households also help with all three of those according to data. No idea how we encourage that though, but I know I never see it talked about.

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SwanOverSunshine t1_j6gixoh wrote

Or maybe just don’t have kids if you can’t provide those things?

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FlexRVA21984 t1_j6gnrv4 wrote

Agree 100% w/ this. Bringing people into the world when you don’t have the means to provide for them is criminal

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STREAMOFCONSCIOUSN3S t1_j6frmy0 wrote

Would the positive role models be hired from outside the community, is that the idea?

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AllTheRoadRunning t1_j6ftgq9 wrote

Not necessarily. Ask people in the area for suggestions--after all, they'll know better than anyone else. After-school and weekend activities provide another opportunity for F2F interactions between kids and role models as well.

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eclectic-and-effete t1_j6ggjbd wrote

^^^ big ditto to your comment. There isn’t enough emphasis on lived expertise. Far too often the “experts” (lol) come in and make decisions FOR communities rather than with communities.

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fractalflatulence t1_j6hudt1 wrote

Is “FaceTime with positive role models” code for having a responsible father around?

Why are people afraid to talk about the destruction of the nuclear family in black communities?

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AllTheRoadRunning t1_j6hzxrr wrote

I meant exactly what I said and said exactly what I meant. Also--to be clear--I'm talking about face time as in face-to-face interactions, not iPhone video calls.

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