EasterBunnyArt t1_j85c715 wrote
I would add that you should also make sure both of you put in the same amount of effort into attaining the goals.
I have an ex who absolutely hated every party of keeping a house clean. So I became the de facto maid as well as the primary care taker of the animals.
Eventually I asked her if all she has to offer is her home but doesn’t contribute to keeping it clean, why would I want to be with her? If I am also paying into it on a monthly basis I can easily find an apartment with less of a mess to deal with.
Trust me, put in the effort into your daily life otherwise you just become useless to the other person and they will question your worth in the relationship.
fjaoaoaoao t1_j85fxk0 wrote
I know it’s a typo but the thought of making a “party of keeping a house clean” sounds more fun and almost unhateable!
maimou1 t1_j86zek0 wrote
actually, this was a thing in my life as a kid. mom and her friends would sometimes spend a day helping each other with heavy cleaning. accompanied by lunch, and a coffee break or two.
EasterBunnyArt t1_j85nv86 wrote
Yeah, definitely should have proofread it a third time before posting. Keeping the typo.
Mysterious_Pop247 t1_j86gy4r wrote
You would love the military, you get to party like that all the time!
EasterBunnyArt t1_j86qd9j wrote
Except I don't like to get yelled at but am okay with taking directions.
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