I remember in my early 20s, before the internet is what it is now, I realized how most actions are narcissistic, I am 13 and this is deep. How giving and sacrifice makes us feel better about ourselves. In my personal experience, I've met far more women with far more selfish desires than men, so idk what testosterone has to do with anything.

Say what you will, far more men are taken advantage by women than vice versa. Not commenting on the how the dating pool works, it's what it is.