>The Big Bang theory states that the universe is 14 billion years old, but in all honesty, I do not believe the big bang theory. I find it hard to believe that everything was created from a tiny little ball. It just sounds ridiculous

You don't have to believe the big bang theory but you shouldn't dismiss it simply because it sounds strange. Lots of scientific discoveries that we use everyday sounded ridiculous when they were first made. If you don't believe in a dominant theory then you sort of need to explain why it doesn't work, rather than just saying it doesn't sound right.

While the big bang isn't perfect, it is the best theory we have to fit the universe as we observe it now. So you'd need to explain why these observations aren't right.