So if my partner and I use birth control pill/IUD/condom then it means I'm not respecting here as a woman/her body?

What happened to wearing condoms? Everybody want's to do bare intercourse these days. Sorry but in this hook up culture the last thing I want to have is unprotected sex. Everyone is out hoeing and walkin around with all kinds of STDs but the only thing we worry about is not having a baby?

I'm not taking away from the fact that what happened to women's rights isn't fucked up and should never happened and I'm understand that we are talking about having a baby and can't have access to abortion anymore but you won't even get into that situation if you put on a condom or two...ohh you don't want to put on a condom...then yeah go get that vasectomy and stop putting women in fucked up position.

Sex only good these days if it's bare and the women let's you finish in her... like what the fuck happened here?

I know everyone has their preferences but come on...

Also this topic should go both ways.(I said should...I know it can't always)

If men are assholes for not wanting to get a vasectomy are women are asshole as well if they not wanting to get their tubes tide?

Logic should go like this:

If a women doesn't want a baby and can't opt out of having one she should get her tubes tied.

If a men doesn't want a baby and can't opt out of child support he should get a vasectomy.

I know life is not this simple and straightforward and there are always complications and the wonders of our bodies sometimes still surprise us with an unplanned baby regardless how safely sex was practiced...and we quick to start pointing fingers to the opposite sex and have these big debates of who can do what with their body and who should do what and what not and what's allowed and what's moral and what is not...I think sometimes we get so lost in these talks. Seems like neither party wants to actually take responsibility (most time it's men) and we only want to enjoy the pure bliss part and not want to think about the outcome. We want the cake and eat it too without getting fat and getting diabetes as well...

I have many female friends who got their tubes tide, had multiple abortions...also have many male friends who got vasectomy, or wear two condoms every time...just stop shaming each other for our choices...love ya all.