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AllanfromWales1 t1_j7zp9i4 wrote

Reply to comment by letmeseesubreddits in TIFU by spending the night at my boyfriend’s by [deleted]

Report them to the police so that there's something on record to say the police should not take too much notice when they call.

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letmeseesubreddits t1_j7zpl54 wrote

i will be doing that when i’m 18, but since they have used my mom’s mental health as a crutch to continue doing it to her for her entire life i will probably also be taking some more preventative measures as well

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AllanfromWales1 t1_j7zqczg wrote

> more preventative measures

Nothing involving baseball bats I hope..

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Depressaccount t1_j80cy2j wrote

I would say that usually these people do escalate until they get a response from you. The trick is to grit and bear all of that until they stop. They have to truly believe that they will not get a response from you no matter what they do.

One option might be changing your name?

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letmeseesubreddits t1_j80d60n wrote

i’ve actually been planning on changing my name for a long time because i don’t like the past being tied to it. it’ll definitely be freeing to do. gritting and bearing has been my tactic for a long time but as i get older i get more explosive towards them and when i walked in the house this morning, not a word has been spoken since.

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Depressaccount t1_j80ew84 wrote

Yeah, one of the things you could really say to them that they’d actually care about (because clearly they don’t care about your feelings) is, “you really embarrassed yourselves today.” And don’t even bother to elaborate.

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