i am not blessed to have people who outright say they are going to control my life as long as they are able to. my grandparents abuse my mom’s issues and exploit her. i love my mom. i am embarrassed because rather than maybe asking my mom where i am, they bombard me at 5-7am in the morning with calls from the police, family who do not live here, friends, my former high school, my workplace, unknown numbers, and social media. this is by no means love. if i turn 30 and they’re still doing this, it’s STILL not love. they are manipulative and my mom and i are not actual people with free will to them. we are things to smother, keep home, and break down until either we die or they die. i’m not sure what would happen first especially if they never stop.