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emv518 t1_j9h4icy wrote

Get tested immediately. An ex boyfriend of mine was cheating the whole time: with strangers (men and women) from Craigslist while not using protection. It made me sick and I felt so violated. You need to leave this twat immediately. You deserve better than someone who would betray you. Take time to grieve the relationship and the future you lost. This was hardest for me. We had a house that we would drive by and say one day we would move in together. We had our future kids names picked out. It literally turned my whole world upside down to find out. But it was for the best that I found out before I actually was married or had the loser’s kids. Be grateful you found out before that, too. I’m here if you need to talk.

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Certain_Syllabubb OP t1_j9h5kco wrote

That is horrible! I am so sorry. And thank you! For now I just want to wrap myself in my fav blanket and get away from all this

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Arnold729 t1_j9hafya wrote

So he’s gay?

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ciarenni t1_j9hdgps wrote

Bi people exist. Also, what an incredibly tone-deaf comment.

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athos90 t1_j9jk6zq wrote

I agree with what this person advised, however i would advise caution on the blanket statement of “Someone who loves you, won t hurt you.” I d treat this statement with a grain of salt and i d be careful of offloading responsibility to one side . I think people that love each other hurt each other because of miscommunication. Have a look at the subject of non violent communication : https://youtu.be/l7TONauJGfc . I know it s a long video but you can search for shorter ones if u feel like it .

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pmmeurcatpicsplz t1_j9iimfx wrote

Nah. Literally every cheating post that I've seen on reddit suggests this, most are straight relationships.

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TyPasta_ t1_j9irhhs wrote

You're getting downvoted because you're wrong lol

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pmmeurcatpicsplz t1_j9ijuz1 wrote

Not all the replies. I mean that some person on the post itself will remind the OP to get tested.

I won't deny that people automatically go to that if it's a mm relationship but I've seen tons of posts related to cheating on reddit with those suggestions. Go check out some posts on r/relationships or something and you'll see what I mean

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Northstar1989 t1_j9ikrlq wrote

> I mean that some person on the post itself will remind the OP to get tested.

Of course. I don't claim otherwise.

But here, we have MOST replies saying it- which is frankly, extremely suspicious, as that's NOT the norm with MF cheating.

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