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[deleted] t1_j9ho7y9 wrote

Reply to comment by Certain_Syllabubb in TIFU as I presented my bf with his cheating partner on a silver platter by Certain_Syllabubb

If your boyfriend enjoys having sex with men there iis a 0% chance this wouldn't have happened whether now or later on down the road when it would have been 1000x harder to leave. Bi-sexual and gay men don't just suddenly stop wanting to have sex with men because they get married to a woman and try to pretend they aren't what they are. It usually gets worse.

It has nothing to do with you or your self-worth. I'm guessing your soon to be ex-bf being ex-military caused him to keep his sexual identity hidden and he just got used to it. But only a horrible person would do that while stringing along someone they are supposed to love.

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Friendlyfire2996 t1_j9hzwtb wrote

I. Don’t. Cheat. I’m a Bisexual man married to the same woman for almost fifty years. The whole cheating thing is a vicious, ignorant, phobic stereotype. Bisexual people are no more likely to cheat than anyone else.

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[deleted] t1_j9i71fg wrote

How does that change that this person was literally cheating on her lol what the fuck are you talking about? And when did I say that bisexual men are more likely to cheat than straight men?

Figure your shit out dude. This person obviously has issues and it seems like you do too if you're getting this defensive about it.

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JadeLogan123 t1_j9iwcil wrote

You very heavily implied that bisexual men are more likely to cheat then straight men.

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Nailbomb85 t1_j9hp5kl wrote

'Want' to have sex is a useless baseline to even mention. It's his actions that matter.

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[deleted] t1_j9hpckk wrote

Actions aren't going to change a biological inclination towards wanting to have sex with men lol what?

So your solution is for him to just stay closeted and not have sex with men even if he is gay or bi-sexual? As long as he doesn't commit to action everything is fine?

Such a weird take. He's obviously not mentally or emotionally adjusted to his reality.

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Nailbomb85 t1_j9hqbl9 wrote

Wow, you're really lacking in the critical thinking department, eh?

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He can 'want' to have sex with men all he wants, but he's in a relationship. Actually doing it though? That's cheating. That's not ok, period.

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ArtemisWYK t1_j9ih5bu wrote

That's like saying straight men will always cheat with women. Or straight women will always cheat with men. Your comments are not only disgusting, but so harmful to bisexual people (and very false.)

Do better.

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ArtemisWYK t1_j9jkcfa wrote

Well when you dirty edit your posts it looks different. Delete this you coward

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rhymes_with_snoop t1_j9imof5 wrote

If he only wanted to have sex with women, he still wouldn't be okay to have sex with women other than the woman he was with. Being bisexual just doubles (minus one) the people he's not allowed to have sex with and still be monogamous. It's not being closeted to be bi-sexual and monogamous. What are you even thinking?

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Birdbraned t1_j9hx1he wrote

Being bi or gay is not a pass to cheat if you're in a monogamous relationship, no matter how far in or out of the closet they are

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[deleted] t1_j9i7gv2 wrote

Okay? Great point I guess? How does that change that this bisexual man was having sex with men behind his partners back?

When did I say being bi or gay gave you a pass to cheat? All of you clowns getting so upset over the slightest things, it must get so tiring living your life.

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