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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja7ril7 wrote

Reply to comment by blainooo in TIFU by telling my bf I want a lap dance by hellopoppyskit

I don't see a problem with that? Just because you are married suddenly means you're not allowed to look at or be sexually turned on by other people? Seems pretty controlling to me.

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ShaderzXC t1_ja9a41x wrote

Looking at or noticing attractive people, sure. Paying for someone to sexually turn you on is a whole other thing.

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9ew22 wrote

What's wrong with being sexually turned on? Who does that harm?

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JimmyLocks t1_ja9h4s5 wrote

Idk pal ask the millions upon million of divorced people on this earth they’ll tell you

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9hbu7 wrote

Ah, yes, all those divorces that happened because someone went to a strip club.

Got it.

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JimmyLocks t1_ja9htt7 wrote

😂 literally just google strip club divorce and you’ll see a full page of instances and opinions on that subject

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9i75r wrote

I looked at a few. Seems the big issue is someone in the relationship promised not to go to a strip club but kept going but tried to cover it up.

So the issue is lying, which is much more serious than getting a lapdance.

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JimmyLocks t1_ja9idt2 wrote

And why wouldn’t they want their SO to go to a strip club?

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9ik4f wrote

Same reason they don't want their SO drinking too much or watching porn, or gambling? They personally don't like it, for whatever reason.

Not everyone thinks like that.

EDIT: Read the responses here. Most of them say going to a strip club is not a big issue, but the lying is. And the wife admitted she didn't want her husband going because she's just insecure (which, I suspect, is true of most of the people in this thread downvoting me and acting like going to a strip club is some kind of unpardonable sin, when it's realy just all in good fun.).

https://community.babycenter.com/post/a68981065/would-you-divorce-over-strip-clubs

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