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Devittraisedto2 t1_j836tp8 wrote

Reply to comment by iamrikaka in TIFU by messaging old friend by iamrikaka

Not really

It's a fuck up if you knew he passed away and accidentally messaged him

But all you did was not know he had passed and messaged him

It's normal if you didn't know.

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iamrikaka OP t1_j836yfh wrote

We weren’t that close, but it still sucks I wasn’t aware for 2 years that he has passed away

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Devittraisedto2 t1_j8373dk wrote

That's the point

It really wasn't a fuck up. You weren't close so you weren't informed or knew that he passed away.

So don't blame yourself for not knowing.

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beaverbait t1_j838owj wrote

Not like he could have let you know.

Sorry for your loss though, it's not easy to deal with when a person you knows is just... Gone. Don't beat yourself up about it.

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iamrikaka OP t1_j838uy7 wrote

Yeah I know what you mean, but his profile had loads of posts regarding his passing from friends and family. Somehow they never made my timeline

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beaverbait t1_j83ewi8 wrote

Facebook isn't built to communicate with friends and family. It's built to sell you shit. That's also not on you.

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iamrikaka OP t1_j83f8wg wrote

Sadly you are right. It did use to be like that

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