None of this is normal casual dating/hook up behavior. From any of these guys. I’m sorry you’re going through this level of shit.

Casual dating/sex absolutely isn’t for everyone, but I’m not sure you can decide if it is or not for you based on this… because this… this is just men being crappy. And you’ll get that no matter how seriously you go.

If this hasn’t turned you off completely to the idea, try casual dating first. Go on a date with multiple guys in a week or so time span (and be upfront with them that you’re doing this and sex is off the table) and see how things go.