Here’s the thing. I’ve heard lots of married couples complain they didn’t get to eat at their wedding cause there wasn’t time. And you should be aiming to please your guests. Get some different catering and use the money you are saving on haute cuisine catering to take you and your new wife to a Michelin star restaurant on your honeymoon, it will be more memorable and you won’t have your FIL attempt to murder you both on your wedding day.