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thehim t1_jc8cpan wrote

This is not a fuckup, you’re both at the same gym, you’ll see her again

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masskonfuzion t1_jc97577 wrote

Seconded. This is not a fuck-up. You actually created a little bit of mystery, a reason to engage in conversation again another time

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OldsEntrepreneur t1_jc9y3py wrote

Hopefully she won't read this. With all those details it sounds like a stalker

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tiduz1492 t1_jc90whv wrote

Ya I was getting ready for the second hand embarrassment but you actually played this fine. Next time is when you get the number

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aussie_nub t1_jc92bo5 wrote

Or you awkwardly hang out and just wait for the priest/celebrant to say it at the wedding.

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impar-exspiravit t1_jc9wqk8 wrote

Agree! This is actually good and probably something way cooler than what she normally hears, aka OP will pleasantly stand out. And it makes it easier for future interactions because it was easy and quick, the ball can be in anyone’s court still. Great time to give her a little smile and wave when you see her next and possibly later that time or the next ask to grab her name

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ItsJustMeBeinCurious t1_jca2bxp wrote

Don't creep/stalk. You've opened the door a bit. If there's a hint of interest she will talk to you. Don't make the mistake and lunge.

She's there for the workout and so are you. It doesn't mean you can't meet someone there but it also doesn't mean she's there for a hookup.

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_justtheonce_ t1_jca7koo wrote

I mean this is esentially ... "I spoke to my crush at the gym today" - but because really lets be honest, no one cares, they re-frame it as a TIFU....without any real actual fuckup.

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