EtherealSai t1_jeb08eo wrote on March 30, 2023 at 6:28 PM

I'm not gonna lie to you, you have issues that need to be worked out with a therapist if you are pushing people away and deleting all their info just because you are afraid they won't like you anymore. That would be like slicing off your fingertips because you're afraid of getting an ingrown nail.

I'm not saying this to make you feel bad or be mean, but you should really work through those before you try to date people.

PotatoOver9759 t1_jeb6sq5 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 7:10 PM

This is such sage advice. Please get therapy for your past trauma so you don't end up doing these kind of things again.

Bi_Bibliophile t1_jeb1mat wrote on March 30, 2023 at 6:37 PM

You're probably not wrong

trvllvr t1_jebfxob wrote on March 30, 2023 at 8:08 PM

Oh they are definitely right. You need to see someone to work on your insecurities. They will continue to ruin any possible relationship if you don’t.

Bi_Bibliophile t1_jebg5b6 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 8:10 PM

Yeah, as I've agreed with literally everyone who's said that already

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