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blahbleh112233 t1_jb0l7rr wrote

Depends on the country, think of it like securing repeat customers if they're not creeps. Good on OP though, sounds like a good night

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guutarajouzu OP t1_jb4er56 wrote

I think it helped a LOT that I'm not military, spoke her language and more importantly, I'm a needy sucker with a fear of commitment 😂

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blahbleh112233 t1_jb5he7z wrote

Ah, wasn't my intention to sound cynical. Loneliness sucks and hostess bars are popular for a reason. Just don't overcomit to what may be a superficial relationship

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guutarajouzu OP t1_jb7v0fo wrote

Exactly this! It's a mutually beneficial arrangement: she gets money to pay her bills and I get to feel desirable for an hour or so

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