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GarlickNyaan t1_jb5nova wrote

Reply to comment by Zikkan1 in TIFU by de-sensitizing, re-sensitizing, and over-sensitizing my penis. by venidiluculo

My previous bfs always wanted a stronger grip, so when I ended up with my current bf I continued with the stronger grip… only to find out that is NOT what he likes.

At least he communicated it, and I was able to adjust accordingly lmao

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Tankyenough t1_jb62rc5 wrote

I’d say it’s a specific grip more than a strong grip, strong in certain parts which the person has got used to but loose at others. The problem with that is, the person has kind of ”moulded” his hand to what is seemingly the perfect shape, but of course a vagina isn’t that shape ever. And another person’s hand can’t possible achieve the shape he has perfected haha.. :D

I suffered from death grip for a long time and the only thing that really helped was simply masturbating less often and putting restrictions to myself, accompanied with long foreplays.

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GarlickNyaan t1_jb63kxw wrote

That makes sense! Glad you figured out a way that works for you, longer foreplay is definitely something that gets overlooked, despite how important it can rly be for either/both partners

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