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AcrobaticSource3 t1_je7da43 wrote
Ok so if you are a teenager, this is an understandable rookie mistake. If you are a 40 year old dude, not so much
Aggressive_Finding_3 t1_je8ip62 wrote
I am a teenager.
No_Love_1353 t1_jeaprpk wrote
This is a good thing. Learn from your mistakes young man.
LongDistRider t1_je6khd6 wrote
A few rookie mistakes in there, nothing major. Sounds more like Mary was being cool and Cherry was being an asswipe.
Aggressive_Finding_3 t1_je6lbm6 wrote
Man, still learning from my mistakes and after this incident I felt very bad that I was shameful of my own self for a while.
LongDistRider t1_je6uh8t wrote
Don't be too hard on yourself. Women can be hard to figure out when you are just starting out. I have spent the entirety of my adult life trying to figure out a wife, 3 daughters, and 2 granddaughters. Interfacing with them is a skill you develop.
For some, it comes naturally. For others like us, it is something we have to learn. From my experiences, it is a skill that I am constantly refining. We've been married 33+ years, and I am still working on it. Truly loving someone takes a lifetime. You will get there. We all make mistakes of varying degrees. Some of us actually learn from them.
Fwiw, don't give up in Mary. From your description, she sounds pretty cool about the whole thing.
Aggressive_Finding_3 t1_je8itm2 wrote
Thnx for your advice.
nightowl_i t1_je6vyva wrote
Greed got better of you. Stick to one girl next time