Exactly the point I was trying to make. Why did he have to? He said he was drunk and lying down, so likely couldn’t be bothered. If he’d had a few too many cocktails, it a fair assumption that she had also been drinking, and that affected how they both felt and reacted. But it really is a mountain out of a molehill.

If it had been a woman who refused to join her bf in the shower, only to get him visibly sulking afterwards, with the argument that she made him feel bad for being a man - well, everyone would be telling her to leave / divorce him, and there’d be red flags everywhere.

Consent goes both ways people! Nobody should be forced to do something they don’t want to just to please their partner, and their partner shouldn’t sulk and accuse like that afterwards. People must be so hung up on the notion that this was period shaming that they’ve forgotten about consent. They’ve lost sight of the bigger picture. She was using ‘period shaming’ to shame him for not doing what she wanted, and using it as her excuse for acting all offended.