Submitted by Hot_Future9137 t3_z6prr8 in tifu

Sorry for bad grammar So I (16M) told my GF (17F) about some boys in my school planning to do a kissing booth and joked that maybe I should try it out. She got real mad, saying I always try to act cool (as if i’m a player, which is opposite of what I usually am) and she hates it, been hating it for a while (last week we went to play billiards with some of her friends, she was mad about the same reasons when I did a little trashtalking with her friends like I would with my friends, nothing offensive at all), and that I dont care about her feelings when I said it and now she wants to break up. I know I messed up, this is my first relationship ever, I still love her, please help I don’t know what to do and open to hear from everyone how much I F’ed up.

TLDR joked about trying a friend’s kissing booth, got GF mad and wanting to break up, please help.

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Prind25 t1_iy2mqqe wrote

If she doesn't like your sense of humor now, she ain't gana like it in 20 years bro. I'm not saying don't get her back or don't put effort in, ya know it's young love and the relationships you have now are far more carefree and have the fewest life consequences, so just enjoy dating while you can, doesn't even have to be with her, point is you should pursue one's that are fun. People don't find forever love the first, second, or third time, some don't ever find it so don't sweat this particular relationship too hard when you've hardly had time to look for the right person. There's plenty of fish in the sea you just gata put yourself out there and take a few risks.

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kelvinwop t1_iy2se81 wrote

If she doesn’t like you for who you are then while its not an immediate death knell to your relationship, a reevaluation is definitely necessary.

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_iy4jg4p wrote

Wait, so the boys are planning to do a kissing booth and you should try it out? Like, you should pay then $1 to kiss them?

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Radiant_555 t1_iy5qbro wrote

I really don’t think you F’d anything up, OP. It doesn’t sound like you’re doing anything with a evil intent. You are joking around making yourself comfortable and trying to have a good time with those around you. Maybe she has some sort of insecurity about you with potentially other girls?

The lesson in your situation is pretty simple. Why would you want to alter or “hide” who you are daily just to fulfill this “image” your partner wants from you? Not a very genuine relationship if you ask me. This is a person you truly love? When they can’t love who you genuinely are? Hmm…

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